We get many email requests for advice and information which really keeps me and the staff here at aupairclearinghouse busy!  One question that is repeated several times a month is "How can I be the best host mom?"  We answer this each time with basically the same advice.  We will be writing an article on this subject soon!  For now, here is what I tell host moms:

• Be warm and welcoming starting with the first time you meet and greet your au pair!  This is so important and first impressions are lasting!  Your au pair will be apprehensive and wants to be treated as part of your family - make sure you go out of your way to make this happen.
• Make sure her room is bright and clean with new sheets and comforter for her bed.  Give her the basics:  computer or laptop and her own tv (so she has her privacy and so do you). 
• Encourage your children and spouse to be friendly and helpful as your au pair finds her way around and learns the schedule.  Stay positive and supportive when she makes mistakes and make sure you praise her when she does her duties and responsibilities the way you want her to!
• Encourage her to go out and meet the other au pairs in her cluster!  Host a cluster meeting so all the au pairs will meet her in "her" home.  Have her greet her guests and make sure the counselor is there too.
• Show interest in her culture and her family back home.  Ask her questions about her homeland and what kinds of things she enjoyed with her friends and family.  Suggest family outings with her so everyone has the opportunity to bond with their new au pair.  You are both forging cultural bonds that hopefully will last a lifetime!