I took your poll on male au pairs. I have to admit I said "Not Sure." We have three girls and I don't know about having a male take care of them, bathing them, dressing them, etc. So much has happened here in the country with pedophiles that I think Americans are more cautious, don't you think, about using male caregivers? Look what happened to the young people in the Catholic Church.

I would say it is better not to look for trouble, cause trouble will find you soon enough. We are looking for a female and someone who is kind, sweet and not a party girl.

Love your site - very helpful!!