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Is Your Au Pair Agency Designated by the U.S. Government? It Should Be!

What does the Department of State designation mean?

There are 14 au pair agencies in the United States.  Au pair agencies with a J1-visa means that the au pairs coming to America will be in an au pair agency that is supervised by the U.S. government.  America's current au pair program was established by the U.S. Government in 1986 as an educational and cultural exchange program with a childcare component.State Department

The business idea was to recruit young women to spend a year abroad, learning another culture and travel, while providing 45 hours a week in childcare to their "host family."  Host families pay the agency for this service.  

The larger au pair agencies are a million dollar business.  Au pair "programs" have to meet certain requirements and once they are approved, they receive a "designation" to sponsor or "run" their program.

As designated sponsors, all current au pair agencies must operate their programs in accordance with all of the US-DOS program regulations.

The government has set working hours, admission criteria, establishes the au pair weekly stipend and stipulates other important guidelines to ensure a positive experience for all parties. 

The Au Pair Agencies

There are 14 "legal" au pair agencies in the United States.  They are considered to be "legal" in the sense they have been approved by the Department of State (DOS) and are regulated by the U.S. government.  DOS's goal is to make sure each au pair agency follows strict regulations concerning the overall recruiting, screening, training and agency monitoring of their au pairs.  

Many of today's regulations were put into place by DOS after the Louise Woodward trial that involved the death of a host parents' young infant son, Matthew Eappen in 1997. Today, au pair agencies are closely monitored by DOS to protect the safety and well-being of American children cared for by foreign au pairs. 

What are the au pair agencies responsible for? 

Agencies carry out the day-to-day operation of the au pair program:  they recruit, screen, select and match au pairs with host families.

  • They must ensure all au pairs are given a criminal background check and undergo psychological testing
  • They must also ensure the au pairs speak and understand English.
  • Host families must be interviewed also and they are required to speak and understand English and meet all the requirements of hosting an international visitor. 
  • Au pair agencies are required to train the au pairs according to US-DOS regulations and they must monitor each match by providing monthly contact with both au pair and host family.

NOTE:  Although US-DOS authorizes and monitors these 13 au pair agencies, host families must remember that they are ultimately responsible for finding the au pair that is right for their family

Because au pair agencies are a business first, they market and run their business to make a profit.

Not all agencies are the same and not all agencies have customer service as their benchmark.  Most agencies want to make a profit and will always present the positive elements of the program to host families, shunning any mention of the cons.

First, and foremost, parents should become fully informed on the au pair industry and then carefully and thoroughly interview both the agency and any prospective au pair before welcoming a stranger into their  homes. 

Finally, there is a better way to research au pair agencies and read about how to interview, match and supervise a foreign au pair.  AuPairClearinghouse does all the work for you and more - we offer host family survey reviews and ratings so you can research all 14 programs to fit the one that fits best with your family. 

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Au Pairs VS Nannies

Edina, don't get me wrong, I am all for au pairs, but I wonder, how much concern do parents need to be if they use an au pair through one of these government supervised agencies and hiring a local woman to be a nanny?  My neighbor has a 53 year old woman who comes in Monday - Friday to care for the kids (she does not drive, so that is a major drawback, but they really don't need a driver).  She is relatively inexpensive, about the same as our au pair, but she works all day when the kids are in school, cleaning the house, doing dog duty (walking the dog), does the laundry for the entire family (au pairs only do it for the kids) and she even cooks dinner for the entire family. 

She also supports a family with her position.  Shouldn't we think about giving these childcare jobs to women in this country and maybe not to a foreign au pair, who are all very young and somewhat inexperienced with managing the household and watching children?  Their nanny is not a legal citizen, so that is why I think the pay is so low, but she is reliable and seems to enjoy her job.  She often looks in at our au pair and house, and I know she has been a good influence for some of our younger, more immature au pairs!

Au pairs VS Nannies

Hi Kanye,

Professional nannies can be a wonderful addition to the family, there is no question about that.  However, because they are carefully trained and come with years of experience, they demand higher salaries, as they should!  Not all families can afford these high salaries, and it is this group that we are talking about.

Middle class families are hard pressed to meet their financial responsibilities every month - with mortgages, rising fuel bills, health insurance payments, food, clothes, etc., it is difficult for any family to make ends meet without both parents working.  This is where au pairs come in - they are highly affordable (around $8.00 an hour), live-in, can help with light cleaning and starting dinner and can drive your children to after school activities when you are still in the office!   A professional nanny might charge you $24.00 an hour for the same services - that is a big jump!

Now, there are "nannies" that are not professionally trained, are not well-screened and often do not drive - they reside in the U.S., and sign up on Craig's list or in the local newspapers - yes, they are affordable, $8-10 an hour, and you will not have to pay an agency "program fees."  

However there are important key differences that can affect your pocketbook and peace of mind:

  • Screening:  local "nannies" do not come with a criminal background check or psychological screening.  You interview them, and then you decide, "Is she who she says she is?"  Pretty risky, right?  You have nothing to base your decision or judgment on!  All au pairs are required by U.S.A. government law to have a criminal background check and to undergo a psychometric testing - if the au pair fails the test, the agency is required to reject her.
  • Medical Insurance:  your nanny will not arrive with a health insurance policy (like au pairs do).  If your nanny gets sick and she lives in, you may end up paying out of pocket. 
  • I Don't Drive!:  most local nannies who are also illegal aliens do not drive.  So, don't count on them driving your children around - you will have to do that yourself and arrange for their transportation to and fro after school.
  • Mediation and Rematch Services:  if you have a disagreement with your local nanny and she is not with an agency, you and she are on your own.  You will not have a professional counselor to mediate your issues - so get ready to compromise big time if you want to keep your nanny.  If your nanny quits or you fire her, that is it, the relationship ends there.  With an au pair, the agency will work hard to replace the first au pair so there is no or very little "gap" in childcare.

I hope this helps to clarify the differences between an au pair and hiring a local woman who calls herself, "Nanny."